I have been having fun tonight listening to the wind howl. A storm is moving into Vegas tonight and with it the wind speed picks up. There are gusts out there at LEAST 50 mph! The wind chime is going crazy outside! Careful, wind chime noise in video is LOUD!
John got paid so he gave me $700 to pay bills. This is more than he has to give me so that is nice. I have the following bills to take care of:
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- $400 electric
- $100 credit card (I had all ready missed one payment)
- $85 credit card (same with this one)
- $40 health club membership (haven't even been going at all since we split up)
- $50 cellphone (only phone I have)
- $100 gas (will last my 15 passenger van about 2 weeks if I don't really go out much)
- $100 food (that is two weeks worth for 4 people (me and the kids)
- Other bills that may come up are water, gas, internet.
I know, I have WAY exceeded the allowance I was given so what do I do? I cannot continue to eat Ramen and popcorn for dinner. WAY too much salt for me and not good for you in general. Got to do food and gas. So that is $200. Got to pay at LEAST $200 to electric. So that is $400. Got to pay for phone! MUST have a phone so that is another $50. So that pays out $450 leaving me $250. About to forget. Got to get a case of diapers for Margaret and Joseph. That is $40. Plus I have two doctor appointments I need to go to. That is $40. So we are at $530. Need a $70 copay to take Joseph to the pulmonologist. I have the extra high co-pay because I had to miss the appointment last time because John forgot to give me the money before he left for work that day. That makes $600. There is an IEP meeting scheduled for Joseph and it would cost $100 for the advocate to be there. I do NOT have the money for all of this! I am not sure what I am going to do! I think I will have to cancel the IEP and try to do one in Arizona when we get there. I will have to see if I can find an advocate and how much they would cost. I cannot be trusted to attend one of those meetings alone. I am just too emotional and hot-headed. I wind up saying things that I occasionally regret. So I could easily spend all the money and still not even pay a lot of the bills I know about. Sigh! This is why I am SO upside down on everything. : (
Is this going to be us at the end of September?
I am in trouble! Never, growing up in a middle class family, did I ever think my life would wind up like this. I have been losing so much hair lately. I am certain it is from stress. What I am NOT stressed out about lately??? Moving? How is it going to happen? How am I going to afford to move my things? What about getting a storage room for a bit (more money I forgot to add to my list of needs)? How am I going to get my stuff to Arizona since I am the only adult driver and I cannot tow my van? If I take my stuff where am I going to put it? What about money for gas to even drive there? Am I going to truly wind up homeless? If so where am I and the children going to go? Can we live out of the van? What about getting services for the children? What about food? What about child care? I will not have money to pay anyone really until two weeks AFTER they have been watching my children. Since Joseph is medically fragile he cannot be in a daycare or school setting. So where does this leave me??? Plus James and Margaret cannot go to school because they would get sick and bring it home to Joseph. This is why I have been home with them for the last several years. This is by far the most balls-to-the-wall sort of thing I have ever done! I have to make it to Arizona to take this job!. If I have ANY hope of making my little family self-sufficient then I need, MUST HAVE, this job!
The children have been driving me crazy because they are getting into everything. I can't blame them really. I have stuff pulled out all over the place. They are fascinated by it. Why shouldn't they be? James and Margaret were getting into all kinds of stuff, broke a couple of things and were not listening. In the end I yelled at them and then broke down crying. I cried in front of my children and the poor kids did not know how to handle it. James was trying to be nice at that point and he gave me a hug and said he would not make a mess again. That was SO sweet! I shouldn't be crying in front of them. It was just too much today. I am so worried. When I talked to John about it he said not to worry that I would be able to figure something out. Often, I would agree with him. On the other hand I am getting really worried.
I am still trying to pack things but it is hard with the children here and no one here to help me distract them. After that my hand is the next big hurdle. I have come to the conclusion it will never be right. The only good news from the carpal tunnel surgery is that my hand no longer falls asleep when I use it. It hurts instead (sometimes very painfully) but in some ways that is better because I still have some kind of feeling in my hand. Just makes packing difficult because I have a hard time moving boxes.
I was having fun reminiscing over some old video clips of the children. This is video of the kiddos when they were two. Joseph is having fun and getting so tickled with what he is doing. He has SUCH a great laugh in this video! You can also see James count (and sign) and Margaret sing her A, B, Cs .