Showing posts with label medically complex child. Show all posts
Showing posts with label medically complex child. Show all posts

Saturday, February 22, 2014

The Medically Complex Child: How the State Can Kidnap Your Child

Justina BEFORE going to BCH.
Photo courtesy of nydailynews.com
Addendum: Here's a link to all the financial supporters of BCH! Hit them where it hurts! Where the money is!! Contact all these sponsors and let them know about Justina! If they don't pull support.. we will
Link to Sponsors of BCH Also a Facebook page has been set up to rally and organize the people to help Justina and her family. Please visit the Free Justina Pelletier From Boston Children's Hospital! for more information.
Justina NOW at BCH. Who do you think was taking better care of her?
Photo courtesy of nydailynews.com

Addemdum:  Here is one of the best overall articles I have read concerning the Justina Pelletier case. Click here.

I wanted to comment a little on the recent news story.  The custody case of Justina Pelletier.  If you have not heard about this case you should get involved!  There are so many stories on the internet at this point I would suggest googling Justina Pelletier to read up on the case.  This case is an outrageous abuse of authority of a hospital and the State! As the parent of a child that has been called "medically complex" (by several doctors) I understand the risk of taking my child to a hospital or a new doctor.  Why should I be afraid?  The Justina Pelletier case is just one example (there are several more) where the parents were trying to do the right thing but it ended horribly.  The parents had a diagnosis of mitochondrial disease from a doctor at Tufts and for the last two years had been treating their daughter according to her specialists.  When she got ill last year with the flu around Valentine's Day they took her to a local hospital.  The local hospital in Connecticut did not feel as though they could treat her adequately so they sent her on to Boston Children's Hospital (BCH) which is well known for its pediatric research and specialists.  Justina's doctor at Tufts, Dr. Mark Korson, (Head of Metabolic Services at Tufts) was on his way there to see her at BCH.  When Justina went through the emergency room a neurologist took charge of Justina's care before her doctor from Tufts could arrive.  The neurologist and then a psychologist determined Justina suffered from a psychological condition (Somatoform Disorder) and not from mitochondrial disease.  Once Justina's doctor from Tufts arrived he was told he could not take charge of Justina's care.  The parents of Justina then wanted to take her out of  BCH to another hospital for a second opinion.  They were told they could not and escorted out of the hospital.  It was only a day or two after the parents (Lou and Linda) were notified that the State of Massachusetts had taken custody of their daughter.  They were told they lost custody because they had over medicalized their daughter and this is a form of child abuse.  So, because their daughter did not feel well, they took the time to take her to various doctors in a hope to find out what was wrong. They researched possible causes of her illness and had her undergo various medical tests to try and determine the problem (which a diagnosis WAS made) and they were accused of the more encompassing form of Munchausen By Proxy (this is no longer the term used, the modern term is Fictitious Disorder By Proxy) called medical child abuse. 

What is the profile of a person accused of medical child abuse (from American Academy of Pediatrics)? 
1.  Life revolves around the child's illness. *If you have a child who is ill and you cannot determine the source of the illness I am sure your life, as a parent, would revolve around your child's illness too.  I know ours (John, myself, James and Margaret) revolve around Joseph.  We work really hard to be careful not to bring illness into the home for fear of Joseph getting critically ill.

2.  "Good parent" or Martyr. *So being a good parent, a concerned parent, can be used against you if a physician decides you are perpetrating medical child abuse.

3.  Not being relieved at a normal test result. *I have to admit I have been guilty of this. Why? Because I knew something was wrong but the tests were not showing the problem.  I have gotten into several arguments with neurologists telling me there is nothing wrong with Joseph besides him being premature. We did an MRI and the results were normal.  I was upset.  My gut, my mother's intuition, said there IS something wrong! So, in this case, I was NOT happy about a normal result.  I am glad Joseph's brain is normal. I really was, even at that time, but I knew something else was going on!  In the last year, with the additional tests we have run on Joseph, I have been vindicated.  We still do not know what is wrong with Joseph just yet but we have narrowed it down to something genetic, something metabolic or mitochondrial disease (the same disease that Justina was diagnosed with!).

4.  Promotes invasive tests and procedures. *Again, I am guilty of this!  I did not push for invasive tests without doing less invasive testing first.  I did not want to put my child through that.  I waited, and waited, and waited some more.  In the last year we did some of the more invasive tests.  I hated putting Joseph through it but on the other hand we now have more information and clues on what might be wrong with Joseph.  Even if this means we are finally able to get a diagnosis of "Joseph's disease"!

5.  Interest and expertise in medicine.  *Again, I am guilty of this.  I have learned a lot about medicine over the years.  I have spent a lot of time researching what might be wrong with Joseph.  I have bought, borrowed or read what I could of medical journal articles and medical textbooks.  Why?  First off I am a concerned parent wanting to find what is wrong with my child.  I realize that doctors, in particular medical specialists, are busy with a multitude of patients.  Even Joseph's primary care physician, the doctor who would know him best, still cannot know Joseph as well as my husband and I do.  Joseph spends the majority of time with us, not the doctor, so we know him and his behaviors best!  Second, I am a research scientist.  I may not be a medical person but I understand science and I can research with the best of people.  In reading medical textbooks on neurology I spent a lot of time underlining medical terminology and researching the definitions.  Just because I did not go to medical school does not mean I cannot understand a medical journal article or medical textbooks.  It takes me longer to read and understand than a medical professional but then again I am not conversant in the jargon.  I am sure a medical professional would have a difficult time understanding a geologic journal article (one of my majors) for the same reason...lack of understanding the jargon.

I could easily be accused of medical child abuse by a hospital that knows nothing about me, my history with doctors, or Joseph's complex medical history.  At a hospital they do not know you there and make a snap judgement about you and your child.  This is what happened to the Pelletiers.  The parents had spent a lot of time and testing to determine Justina's condition.  A medical specialist, highly recognized in his field, had diagnosed her. Dr. Korson was successfully treating her.  She was a fairly normal child, enjoying physical activities like ice skating and all of that was stripped away from Justina once BCH decided to interfere with her treatment.

Justina is not the only case and there can be SO many other reasons for the abnormal test results.  She is not the only case by BCH and not the only case in which a parent has been falsely accused of medical child abuse.  Once the State takes custody the horror and nightmare for the parents begins as it can emotionally and financially bankrupt a family!  Parents are typically given a gag order or are afraid to speak out. Parents fear child protective service will see speaking out as an attention seeking behavior and will use that as "additional proof" the parent(s) have Munchausen. Other cases where children were taken into State custody for questionable reasons include the Kirks case, O'Shell case, Velasquez Case, Huber Case, and there are many more but the parents are afraid to speak out!

I applaud Lou Pelletier and his decision to speak out even though there was a gag order on his case.  It has allowed other parents to come forward and talk about their case.  It has inspired me to speak out!  Lou has begged for help and people are starting to listen.  Please help!  Please call BCH, the mayor of Boston, tell anyone, tell everyone!  Go and sign the petition to the White House.  This petition states that the parents should have the final say in medical care.  Read below what Justina's parents were given by BCH as her new guidelines for care.  Would YOU accept that?  Would YOU allow NO second opinions?  Who else knows your child better than you???

Guideline of Care for Justina - Given to Her Parents by BCH
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Tuesday, July 16, 2013

Joseph In The Spot Light!

My Sweet, And Apparently, Complex Boy!
So I am taking a moment to write on my lunch break. I have all sort of interesting news and it has been backlogging.

Work is going well. I really do enjoy my job but I have found it leaves me feeling rather stressed. I am going to see what I can do to work on the stress and anxiety I feel (the anxiety keeps me from sleeping).

Some news bits that I think are important...

The first is the ruling from Doug C. vs Hawaii (12-15079). This is a great victory for parents with special needs children! This case ruled changed several important issues. One, A school does NOT have to hold an IEP meeting before the annual review deadline IF a date for the parent to attend the meeting cannot be arranged! Second, if there are scheduling conflicts in holding an IEP meeting the priority for scheduling is to the PARENT! Not the school! Third, the school cannot hold an IEP meeting before the annual deadline IF the parent has expressed interest in attending. Also the school cannot "make-up" the meeting with the parent by holding another IEP meeting within 30 days of the annual meeting. Finally, there are a few other issues regarding Due Process but hopefully no one will have to make it that far with the school district! You can read more from Wright's Law (click here!)

A great article on a child born with an inborn error of vitamin B12 that was detected (JUST BARELY) by newborn screening! This is why it is important to push states to have the most comprehensive screening for newborns available! This article is found in the American Academy of Pediatrics (March 13, 2013). To read the article by Dr. Christine Armour click here!

The blog, A Day In Your Shoes, posted a printable list of Specifically Designed Instruction (SDI) that you can take to your next IEP meeting. Here are 500 ideas that can help you tailor the instruction in school to help fit your child's needs. Thank you for the great ideas! To see the list click here!

Giving a shout out to Tilty Cups. I love these things! They are a wonderful cup that helps to teach children how to drink out of a cup AND the design of the cup is simple making it easy to clean. I have been using Tilty Cups for my children since they were two! To see their website click here!

Since the interview with ACHSSSC (or whatever they are called in AZ) on June 24th I still have herd nothing back. This was after I was told I would hear something in two weeks. Sigh! I wish medical people would actually call me back like they say they will!

Joseph went to the Melmed Center on July 2. John and I took him back and talked with another developmental pediatrician there. I have been seeking help to try and figure out what is wrong with Joseph. The specialists keep telling me it is because Joseph is premature and I think they are full of crap! Even in talking to the developmentally pediatrician she told me the SAME THING! Said I was not wanting to hear the truth (okay, that is my wording but that was HER meaning)! For SO long I have felt like I have been waging a one person battle to have the specialists recognize something is wrong with him and for SOMEONE to take an interest and DIAGNOSE him! John and I left that day with the expectation to receive a letter outlining the tests the developmental pediatrician would like to run on Joseph. The doctor from the Melmed Center did agree with me that there were some things that had not been tried such as examining him for mitochondrial disease, metabolic issues and cerebral folate deficiency. She thought it would not hurt to look at these last few things but I had to be willing to accept I may never find an answer to what is wrong with Joseph. I know what she said, I realize that may be a possibility, but I will continue to fight if there is ANYTHING else to examine and look at!

July 11th all the children went to see Dr. Blackham. She is a psychologist. The doctors at the Melmed center wanted Joseph tested for autism but did not feel as though they could make the diagnosis themselves. At the first meeting Dr. Blackham asked questions about all the children including the pregnancy, their weights, their development, milestones, and how they were functioning now. John explained part of what we were looking for...a current assessment of the children and how they were doing. How we were interested in how Joseph was functioning in particular since when they Clark County School District last evaluated him at three he was not walking to talking. So Joseph went first. He was to undergo four hours of observation and testing. Testing was to at least include cognitive (IQ), verbal (receptive and expressive), autism rating scale and I am not sure if there were anything else.

July 15th, Joseph went in for his first tests. John also took Joseph's medical book to Dr. Blackham so she could see his previous diagnoses and testing. It is a lot!
July 16th, Joseph went in for his final set of tests. At the end of today's testing John took them home and then texted me. This is what his text said:

Initial meeting with her...she is confused by him. Says she could diagnose him as autistic but is not sure autism is the cause. Mitochondrial is definitely a possibility. Regardless he NEEDS services NOW. She will make a referral to DDD. It might speed things up. (Little does she know I have been fighting for NINE months now to get him services here! It is not the DDD but ACHSSS is holding things up. They suck!) She wants us to go to genetics for folate deficiency. (Don't need geneticist for that really. Just a doctor's office who is willing to do a blood draw for me). Wants us to do an EEG to rule out seizures (I had thought about silent seizures before but the neurologist in Las Vegas would not order the test for a 24 hour EEG. He thought it was unnecessary!). Said he got "lost" a lot. She wants to know if he is having small seizures that disrupt his concentration. Also agrees that prematurity is NOT the proper diagnosis (This is where I cried! After 4.5 years of fighting, after 4.5 years of trying to get specialists to listen to me....FINALLY, FINALLY someone agrees with me!). There is something VERY COMPLEX about his condition and she is frustrated and sorry she can't just say, "he has THIS". She said Sylvany's diagnosis was a little off (I reminded John when she did the assessment on Joseph that was BEFORE he could walk or talk! I said I would think that would make a HUGE difference!) and she will do the ADIS but can diagnose him as autistic based on previous medical treatment.

John also went on to text...
Sad, though, just like everyone else, she doesn't know what is wrong with him. She can't imagine how frustrating it must be to want to solve the problem without knowing what the problem is. She was very apologetic.

Does diagnosing Joseph with autism means nothing to me really. I can keep him in services for DDD and ACHSSS with his diagnosis of Cerebral Palsy. All I REALLY care about is getting my baby the services he needs so he can get better (or at the very least be better than he is now). All I want for his is a normal life and if he can never have that then I want a life as close to normal as I can give him and he can get. He deserves that!

James is next in the cue. He will be going to see Dr. Blackham next week. He will be going on July 22nd and 23rd. It will be interesting to see where he tests out. James seems to have VERY good expressive language and reading skills but POOR receptive language (like he recently tested out at 18 months old!). Plus I want to see if James might be gifted or he just has hyperlexia. On the 24th all the children will go to see Dr. Robin Laks. She is a pediatrician who specializes in medically complex children. So I thought we could go and see her. Finally, on July 25th, John (and hopefully myself) will be going to see Dr. Blackham for the results of Joseph's testing. That will be interesting!

As a final bit of news I had a friend on Facebook excitedly mention that her son was chosen for a genetic study.  I asked for more information.  Turns out the genetic testing lab is local!  I wrote as passionate a letter as I could muster in an effort to plea for them to consider Joseph as a study participant.  We will see if I hear from them.  Keeping my fingers crossed for my friend AND myself!